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Raising the Bar a Little Bit Higher

Often I have heard people say that in order to live a good and proper life, all one has to do is to follow the 10 Commandments. Now, leaving aside the question of how many of the 10 are actually commandments, I can’t help but feel that this is an exceptionally LOW standard to hold ourselves to. Hey, I am writing this at about 10:30AM, and I have not murdered, committed adultery, borne false witness, stolen — I haven’t said anything about my parents, and it isn’t Shabbat, so that doesn’t count — and I am not sure that I know exactly what “covet” is. WOW!!! Seven of 10 !! And I have not even had lunch. I’m off to a great start. Yeah, right!

So, as we approach Shavuot, the time when we celebrate our acceptance of the Torah, when we read the Aseret Hadibrot (10 Commandments), I would like to suggest that we perhaps should add another 10 Commandments to our definition of good and proper. I am sure that I’m not the first to think of this, and maybe you have your own list.

The Next Ten

  1. You shall think well not only of yourself, but also of your neighbors.
  2. You shall add to the health, wealth, and happiness of the world.
  3. You shall be on good terms with sunshine, fresh air and water.
  4. You shall get eight hours of sleep a day, but not during Services or Torah Study.
  5. You shall eat sensibly and exercise moderately most of the time.
  6. You shall honor the memory of your parents and be true to the friends who have done so much for you.
  7. You shall recognize the Divine in all creatures.
  8. You shall remember the weekdays to keep them holy.
  9. You shall remember that you can only help yourself by helping others and injuring another injures yourself.
  10. You shall love the stars, the ocean, the forest, and revere all living things, recognizing that the source of life is One.

It may be a place to start.

B’Shalom and Chag Sameach
Rabbi Stanley Halpern